What to Expect in Your First Matchmaker Consultation

Bring real context, not just preferences

Strong consultations combine logistical preferences with relationship history. Be ready to discuss what worked, what failed, and what patterns you want to change.

This helps the matchmaker calibrate for compatibility depth, not just surface-level filters.

Expect direct questions about readiness

Professional matchmakers often assess scheduling flexibility, communication habits, and willingness to receive coaching. These factors predict follow-through and are essential for program success.

Treat this as a two-way fit interview, not a sales call.

Leave with clear next steps

You should leave with explicit expectations: timeline, cadence of introductions, what happens if matches are paused, and how progress is reviewed.

If next steps are unclear, ask for them in writing before signing.